From 137 and 124 (scroll down for 123)

Coming from Bedford (to the left in these pictures) or Stamford... on 124...
go past the Inn at Pound Ridge...Behind us on the left in this shot looking North

and the Pound Ridge Library on Right, and take the right hand fork onto 124
In about 200 yards, make the first hard right, its almost invisible, that's Trinity Pass
at the bottom of the hill, make a left and stay on Trinity Pass.
always bear to the right until you come..to a bridge...about 3.0 miles, lots of curves.
Bridge marks the end of Trinity..make a left onto Old Mill River
 
go up the hill past the reservoirs and at the top of the hill, you'll see Pam and Michaels house #84
Park on Old Mill past the curve, not a lot of shoulder, so be careful to leave room for cars to get by...
might have a little walk back if everybody shows up...
From 123
Left Onto Conant Valley Rd, just past the Oak Ridge Shopping Center... take Conant Valley till it ends at a brand new stone wall and a stop sign
make a right onto Old Church..go about 150 yards to....
Old Mill River, and make a hard left, going immediately down hill... go back UP hill, about 1.5 miles...
this is Pams driveway... we'll put balloons along the way!

and this is PAM!